I make plans for the weekends. He's just going to have to deal with that, right? I don't think I'm supposed to put things on hold in case he wants to come over, am I?
No. You go on about your life and make it a better one for both you and your kids. If you make plans, keep them. You have to have time for things you enjoy. You didn't ask for this situation. You can't sit at home every weekend hoping or wondering if he is going to make it over. Get out and enjoy yourself. Keep your plans. They are for you. Go to the zoo or where ever you want to go. But get out and enjoy yourself.
You will be healthier and happier for it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
