he needs to open his freaking eyes and actually see what it is like to experience divorce and not seeing his kid whenever he wants, that someone will dictate when he can see his child like a judge will do in teh event we divorce, needs to understand and experience having to tell other people no and sacrifice himself money wise, loose his truck if needed to provide support for his kids.
he used to look good at my work, coaching kids afterschool sports program, helping out, but i could not hide it anymore, i let my administrator and office staff know, not all the staff know but enough do, he can experience anxiety if he came on my campus of how i feel each time i had to get my daughter from his mother and every outing with them or get together.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
