WAW in affair. Help!

[Norm914]

Norm ~

First stop looking at the bill - Your gut was right and now you have it in black & white.

Does your wife still live outside your home? I have read your other thread and didn't see that she had moved back in.

Let her crap all over herself right now while you decide what it is you want to do with the information you have.

Thanks, Serenity.

W is still living BIL. Trying not to look at the bill. After the initial shock I thought, “Don’t react. Time your time. Get advice. Think this through. Figure out the next step.”