LOL--perhaps some women use tears as a weapon whenever they feel threatened or uncertain, and some men use "you [some outside group]" in the same situation? How well I remember my father comparing himself to "you Americans" when he became defensive!
I don't think anyone is saying that divorce is a cure-all; what they're really asking is whether you are actually prepared to CHANGE your life? Divorce MIGHT be the consequence of determining to become fully alive ... but quite likely the result would be the kinds of saved marriages described here. You have to be willing to take the risk to find out.
