I love her very much and I am willing to do what ever it takes to get her back. even if it takes till next christmas to resolve all our issues.
You wrote the above yesterday which makes we wonder why you are even considering the below:
Originally Posted By: nb1
I have not been served with divorce papers and it has been almost a month since she told me she wanted one.
should i be concerned?
should i consider filing myself or will that upset her?
I think you need to stop and take a deep breath and just relax a little bit. You seem to be all over the place on this right now. Take a time out from worrying about what your W is and isn't doing and all the why's of what it might mean. Instead work on your GALing and making positive improvements in you.
