Last night he responded to my email with a very friendly response. AND asked "where are the bills at? should we get together on that?"
"November bills are paid. December bills still need to be handled, when and where would you like to meet."
Perfect resonse, IMHO.
Avermont, he may not have thought you were very affectionate but you don't want to overdo it now with affection. Just be collected. It's not okay what he did but don't let him think you're losinig your mind without him.