Well, last night D13 wanted to talk to me about her father and how he was crying Thanksgiving night after he screamed and called me names. I asked D13 what was wrong, she said "Daddy cried and cried and said if you ever get married don't get divorced."

I felt really bad for her and didn't know what to say. Now remember everyone, he walked out on us, I don't get this at all. Has anyone ever dealt with this sort of thing? This is so confusing to me. He was calling me names one minute and the next crying to our D13 and his other 2 sons from a high school girlfriend. Is it the depression, the drinking?


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08