how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[Ready2Change]

Last night he responded to my email with a very friendly response. AND asked "where are the bills at? should we get together on that?"

"November bills are paid. December bills still need to be handled, when and where would you like to meet."

or

"November bills are paid. I will be handling December bills on the 10th. We could meet at Starbucks if you want to be involved."

or

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