Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

VH, I understand. I just feel so strongly about this. Maybe it is because of how I feel about what she might be using the car for. Also, I feel like she can pay SOMETHING. I have paid ALL of the bills, including the insurance for her car. If I continue to "enable" her, aren't I facilitating her wishes to D? If the credit thing is what you are all thinking, I honestly don't think that she would NOT make that payment. That car is her baby, I can't see her letting it go back to the bank just to spite me, but then again...I dunno, I am confused.