Hey dude, how about you treat yourself in some small way today? I don't know what it should be but even a magazine you like or a latte or some time...you do deserve that.
No issues, do that all the time.
Last night I actually took the evening off and went into the big city to meet some friends.
Also, last year I set up a system where I pull a small amount of money out of the general family fund each month and put into a separate bank accounts for each myself and my W. This is then "mad money" - use it for whatever you want - and neither of us have to feel guilty for spending whatever is there on ourselves.
The thought I was referring to are actually more along the lines of :
"I need ______ from her"
"I need her to _______"
"I deserve ________ from her"
I don't NEED anything that I can't take care of myself.
Last edited by Thinker; 12/03/0905:24 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
