Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Coach, yes that is why. I have a active duty alert on my credit record, so she cannot open any new accounts or add on to any existing accounts. Also, SHE made the payment out of the joint account. I feel like she should pay her own car. It takes her out whenever she goes, and could be facilitating her A. I understand it is my credit, but I am almost convinced this could be a desperate attempt for me to make this payment for her, so that she could have more $$, and worry me about the credit thing. She makes enough money to make this payment. It is the ONLY thing I did not pay.