h is in mlc, now threatening divorce...

[soleil]

i told him that it was today and he starts screaming...i hung up.

You are not responsible for him screaming or being angry.

i dont want to make him angrier...how to let him see what he is REALLY doing???

You are not making him angry unless you were laying into him about something. Also, he knows exactly what he's doing. You cannot "make him" anything. Lay low, be calm and cool. He reminds me of my H.