I re posted this in hope of getting more help. i am having a VERY hard time...

i am grasping the no contact thing. seems to not matter much today is day six...

its his mood swings and anger that are ripping me apart.

our daughter has staples in her head that need to come out today...he calls this morning and asks me what time tomorrow?
i told him that it was today and he starts screaming...i hung up.

what can i do? i really feel stuck between a rock and a hard place...

i dont want to make him angrier...i know memory plays a part in this

its all about him...i get that too

what i dont get right now is him saying he is doing all he can to make us happy... by not being here? by screaming at me? by not doing hardly anything with our girls anymore???

how to let him see what he is REALLY doing??? i know ...probably no way to do that...aaaarrrggggg!!!!


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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