you rather I lay it out and tell you how I see her and the stitch you're in...rather than soft soap it and give you a hug and tell you everything is going to be okay? You can get that from your friends & family. This board is to put the light on the areas you need to see. The fact that it is hard to hear anything negative about your W is b/c you still love her and it's natural to feel that way. She sounds like a tough gal to me.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712