I have flip flopped regarding the history my M as I reflect back on it. I haven't flip flopped about my desire to try to reconcile.
not true. you sent the letter. read it from your wife's point of view. one interpretation is that it is a declaration. divorce, separation, whichever it dont matter, look back at what she said to you afterwards,
"If you want to date someone, that's up to you"
or can interpret it as he's pulls this crap all the time. he's not serious.
any way i look at it youre flip-flopping. the reason i am harping on this is i'd like to know youre plan from here on out.