Take a deep breath and have a glass of water.

You should keep to one thread. Many threads get confusing and infomation will be lost.

hanging up the phone was the right thing to do.

Its not about him. Its about you. You and your daughter have a hard day today. Take care of her. Drink lots of water. Deal with this.

Your marriage can wait a few days.

And update your other thead instead of this one. Vent away. We will be your sounding board.