I feel like I have been shot about a hundred times but no kill shot yet, it is just torture. She is threatening me that she is going to call police and fake abuse tell all of our friends, co-workers, family---that I am a horrible person.
Where is the button that says don't care and how do I get there. I really need some perspective/help here....
Her telling you she's going to accuse you of something so heinous is downright awful. No way around that. Perhaps she's all talk and just grasping at straws now. You cannot change what she thinks about you, unfortunately, but you can focus on the fact that you know you are a good person.
As for the button, you won't find it until it's time. Right now you are too caught up in your emotions, like many of us. I would end contact with her straight away as she is behaving and saying things that are completely erratic.
