Any suggestions on "busting up the affair"? She has a date with the OM Sat. night, should I give her condom back and recommend she use it or just detach and ignore it?
She suggests I pursue sex elsewhere, i.e. get a girlfriend, cgaigslist, etc. Any advice?
I would tell her:
"I will not live in an open marriage. I will not share my wife with another man, and for you to tell me ahead of time that's what you're doing is incredibly disrespectful and just WRONG.
"If you go thru with this on Saturday night, then don't bother coming home, and I will immediately seek a divorce."
When she tells you to seek sex and affection elsewhere, tell her:
"Thank you for your concern, but I'm just fine and I have decided that I will not break my marriage vows as long as we are still married. I can't control you if you choose to, but that's not who I am. Do know that if you continue to choose to have sex with another man, then I will consider our marriage over and proceed to protect myself."
