Coach, thanks. I hope I haven't alienated everyone from my sitch, as I really do need all of your help. Like I wrote earlier, I just have to get off my pity pot, and stop feeling sorry for myself. I feel horrible for sending her that response. It was not the message I should have sent her. I went to a place, I swore I would never go to, and then took joy in it. I am not proud of myself for that. I have researched the Stockdale Paradox, and completely understand the meaning. The reality is, I have got to find a way to implement it.


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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