Any suggestions on "busting up the affair"? She has a date with the OM Sat. night, should I give her condom back and recommend she use it or just detach and ignore it?

She suggests I pursue sex elsewhere, i.e. get a girlfriend, cgaigslist, etc. Any advice?

M-49
W-48
M-18, T-24
S-12
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12/08-ILYBINILWY
3/09-EA & PA Discovered
4/09-Began DBing
1/10-2nd Bomb PA Fully Disclosed