P, I was almost scared to mention the New Year's Eve comment because I thought you(or someone) would tell me I was overanalyzing! LOL Not that it stops me from doing it! :-)
So it struck you as odd as well? Hmmm...
It is overanalysing He could also have been lying. However I can't help think that it was a strange thing to say. Maybe they just haven't talked about it yet as after all it's 4 weeks away. Either way, you would expect his plans for New year would be with his 'love' which we both know is OW. It would be straneg for him to spend it with anybody else.
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About NC--it would be after the holidays. I just know if I kept this up, it would turn to eternal cake eating. If I close the bakery, he will need to make a choice but will be left missing those yummy cupcakes, so to speak. So the goal is to leave a good lasting impression to make the memories rosier. I have been watering the grass over here! Soon it will be time for him to notice OW's lawn is looking kind of matted and yellow. Ewww...wrong analogy to use....
What you are doing there though is going with NC for HIM. You're doing it to teach HIM a lesson and show HIM what his life without you is like. You want HIM to stop cake eating.
NC isn't about him though. It's about you moving on and healing.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
He could also have been lying. However I can't help think that it was a strange thing to say. Maybe they just haven't talked about it yet as after all it's 4 weeks away. Either way, you would expect his plans for New year would be with his 'love' which we both know is OW. It would be straneg for him to spend it with anybody else.
