Is this the end of my marriage?

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I think she probably thinks you'll cave on the NC thing, as maybe you've caved on a lot of things before?

I have. Every single time in the past. I'm not going to cave on this though/

I still think you should have returned her things, via a 3rd party, and with no response to her. Now she's just going to keep harrassing you. NC isn't for her; it's for YOU. And if you have to keep dealing with messages from her, you will never be able to DETACH.

She said to me that the 'next time you are in the loft' in her email. I haven't been in the loft. I didn't think it was that urgent. As I said I'm going up there this weekend to get the stuff down for the tree and that's when I will get her stuff (as it's in the same box). Then I'll bag it up and give it to IM to sort out with W.