Makes me feel better to think he is testing me. I'll think of that when I'm tempted to contact him. It's been so hard to feel forgotten. I do hope he is feeling that himself.
The testing too is hard. See my latest posts on my thread about it. Are we sure they are testing us? Are they maybe not just contacting us about 'business'? Are they doing x, y z ... it's hard I totally understand it.
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I'm working on healing, not getting revenge.
It sounds a bit like OW's XH is looking for revenge himself. Best stay out of it.
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Seems like a game of chicken then. Who will contact first. I won't break now that I see it as a test.
Another test.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
