That was a great explanation cutterbug. Thanks, it was really helpful! I agree, the WAS and OP have such slim chances of success due to their R being based on lies and deceit.
And in my W's case she even lied to HIM - she told him that I was violent to her and she 'said' she apologised to him for saying it. That was about two months after I told him it was nonsense though.
Who'd be engaged in a relationship with somebody who tells you that?!?
Anyway.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
