Is this the end of my marriage?

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Just received a text from W - more breaking the NC. She isn't listening is she?

She wants to know if I received her email from last week and if so, wants to know when I will 'return my Christmas things, thanks.'

No mention of my mum, who she knew was ill and in hospital. No mention of D. No mention of anything, just her Xmas things. Her priorities are clear.

What a warm hearted woman I married.

She goes from text, to email, to phone call, back to text again ... is it an email again next? Carrier pigeon? What?

I have asked this before and I think cutter responded with 'she will never get it', but I feel myself asking the same questions again - why won't she leave me alone (I know the answer but I keep asking myself it - yeah, I want to contact her as I've said in here but I have resisted it) - why won't she follow the NC letter and go through IM - effectively when will she 'get it'.

No intention of responding to her. I am considering changing my mobile #. However has anybody else went completely dark and ignored ALL communication from WAS? I know she is thinking I am being childish but I know I am just protecting myself.

I was thinking this is another way to drag me back in and break NC, but I'm not sure. All she asks about is Xmas things. Maybe she left out the stuff about my mum to annoy me. No idea. Maybe she just doesn't care. No idea.

Plan is to go up the loft this weekend as I am putting the tree up with D. It's a bit early for us but with what is going on I don't think we'll get another chance until almost Xmas. When I am there I will bag up HER things and hand over to IM to sort out. Once that is done there will be no more need for communication as she has everything ... until of course she thnks of something else to contact me about.