Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

Ok, let the flaming begin. I can take all of your 2x4's!!!

I don't know enough about your situation to know what have had to deal with up until now. But I find it hard to want to work with someone who intentionally goes and does something they know will not help the situation.

This...

Ok, I know I am not supposed to be sarcastic towards w, but I just had to do this

... is a cop-out. You did not "just have" to do this, you chose to.

You have a choice in all of this. You can swallow your pride and do what needs to be done to save your marriage, or you can react emotionally, indulge your baser instincts and let your marriage end.