if he does show up unnounced i have to be prepared to stop him from entering my home. yes remaining calm will be necessary but i don't want to get into any dialog with him if he does show up. i'm not ready to speak to him and as much as i think i may be ready to go over my boundaries, i need more time to prep. get more secure confident in what i would tell him.
today is another day and we will see how it goes.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
