I see it that you have to protect yourself. You 'left the door open' all year, and all that happened was you continued to feel that forgotton about whilst he carried on seeing ow. I heard that the WAS never is reachable until they finish with ow anyway, so I dont think you are losing, or risking anything by this action. And your holiday away is coming up real quick isnt it !!
xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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