This is an interesting discussion. I don't see a "Sex Starved Wife" board. Is it ok to talk about women with HD here?
When you talk about ultimatum that you no longer accept things as they are, what outcome are you looking to achieve? It seems it is not only about having sex more, it is more about the attitude, the difference in outlook on sex life as a whole.
DQ, you are happy with the way things are, but you wish it was more often. Is that right?
I'd like to read about those stages of intimacy. I've been thinking about it forever. Of course there's a book about it. I'll look up previous posts for the name. Are there any other good reads on the subject?