You said something about me getting pissed and that's why you listened to her for 90 minutes????????? I suspect that's not why you did listen to her for that long but it sure isnt what I would do in your shoes...
I only said, stop being a smartass and react on reflexes and use your words as you sword, I didnt say become a masochist!!
Anyway, some serious detachement where there are no strong emotions of any kind involved would do you good. Unfortunately, IMO, that comes only with time.
When you are drained and tired, things slow down, you could really start enjoying the scenery, you know... Just sit back and relax. K
