Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[bluerain]

If you do decide that you are going to D her, be prepared for that to be the time that she really responds positively. Dont get sucked in! It seems like when we finally get to the point where we have had enough, we can be the most effective DB'ers.

Keep up on here, even if you decide to go through with it, lots of us have been through, or are going through it, so we can support/commiserate.

I think that you have to decide what you are and are not willing to deal with, then stick to that.