Just remember on top of testing you, your WH feels guilty andis avoiding you for this reason, too. I have observed that there are just as many angry, hurtful WSs as "friendly" cake eating WSs (mine) but maybe you aren't seeing them on this board right now.At least the angry ones give you space so you aren't tortured by seeing them all the time (I try to find the silver lining).
It's a good sign that he wants to see your kids more...his current life is slowing down enough to let him realize he misses his kids!
I bet you're right...the OW's ex is looking for a revenge affair. Gross.
Also, all WSs are narcissistic at least temporarily.
Good job with NC! Keep it up...enjoy your power. He expects you to contact him so show him you are stronger than he knows!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
