I really want to send this message. I am so pissed right now. I am fuming. Shoulld I send this text? @%$&*^!!! I hate her.
A good rule of thumb is to wait 48 hours; if it seems like a good idea in a couple of days, then go for it.
But it's never a good idea to do something like that based on an emotional response -- especially born out of fear, anger, or sorrow. It's never as satisfying as you might think, and will only make matters worse.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement