Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
I really want to send this message. I am so pissed right now. I am fuming. Shoulld I send this text? @%$&*^!!! I hate her.


A good rule of thumb is to wait 48 hours; if it seems like a good idea in a couple of days, then go for it.

But it's never a good idea to do something like that based on an emotional response -- especially born out of fear, anger, or sorrow. It's never as satisfying as you might think, and will only make matters worse.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."