Well HM, you truly have me at a loss. I'm not sure what your history is meant to show me. I have no reason to doubt that you experience deep pain, that you've experienced deep betrayal. But, certainly I can respect your wishes that I not post to you without having read your entire history, which I surely will not do.
My last attempt to help, promise. Surely XH projects his life experience and feelings onto D13 and thus has unhealthy expectations with respect to how she should feel/behave. Don't forget that you might as well, unintentionally, even when you are best-intentioned.
