WAW on suicide watch, what now???

[MHL]

Another bomb today, she contacted a lawyer. I actually got the notice for the certified letter yesterday but I have not gone to the post office yet, no time when it is full time Dad, full time job and full time stress. My W spoke to my son on 2 nights ago while we were in Costco. SIL texts me to have S9 call on her phone so he could speak to his Mom, I don't want to be accused of keeping the kids from her so I call and hand the phone to my S9. Of course SIL is the one to answer so my W does not have to talk to me at all or even hear my voice. My wife asks my S9 if he wants to see her on Saturday and he asks and I say okay. Mind you she has just gotten out of the hospital for threatening to commit suicide, so I have a little aprehension about letting him see her. I know now it was a BS atempt for attention but I am worried she might try to take him and go back to SIL's in VA.

I spoke to OM's wife today after I found out about the lawyer. OM's W took some pictures of my W and OM in the bed together when she caught them red handed, which is what triggered the whole "I'm gonna kill myself routine". I am looking to get the pictures, nothing explicit just them under the covers. OM's W told me that my W had contacted OM back while in the hospital. OM and his W are going to work on thier M, they are M 21 years and have been separated since July 6. He is the one that wants his W back, and realizes his mistake. OM told my W that they were over, only lasted 5 weeks and that she needed to concentrate on her kids and her M and herself. I guess I got what I wanted which was to break up the A. I am happy for them and I guess I am happy or at least satisfied that OM rejected my W for his. I am jealous of the fact that he is going to work on the M with his W and my W is full steam ahead with the big D. I told OM's wife to give him a chance and that she has all the power right now. I actually bought her a copy of DR when we first met for coffee, I told her to dive in. She is concerned that my W will continue to contact her H, (cat claws extended).

We still have 9 months before she can file for D but a sep agreement is basically the D in a nutshell. I am going to keep on DBing and GAL. I am going to contact a lawyer tomorrow but when we have contact to get my S9 back and forth I will just act as if the whole thing doesn't bother me. Funny thing is after couple of months of trying to detatch it is starting to take hold. It is like I don't care and if D happens it is her loss not mine, but I would work on the M if she started to show signs of wanting to. Right now I am working on small goals, just waiting to see if she will talk to me again, instead of text and email.