Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Well, my S12, is just like me, wears his heart on his sleeve, wants to be a Soldier just like dad, etc. I hurt for him. I hurt for both my S. W is starting to pi$$ me off. I am starting to really dislike her, and her behavior towards my boys. I just keep telling myself that it is only a few more months. I just hope my kids can hang on. I know kids are resilient, but when their own M lies to them, what are they to think? What kind of message does that send? Can I repair the damage she is doing? I have always been the stable one, and I will continue to do so. I am going to fight tooth and nail to keep full custody of my boys. I am documenting everything I know. I am starting to hate her...