Hi, Irish,

Originally Posted By: fightingirish
but I also wouldn't have blamed you if you had said something to her.


Oh, it did indeed come to mind in the spur of the moment to say something. Several things. But I have, I think, finally figured out that saying something then, and causing a scene, would give xW exactly the very drama she seeks. So that more than anything stayed my words.

Thanks for your comments and kinds words, BTW.


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WAW: 47
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Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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