No complaints about my wife in the "motherhood" category. She pours herself into properly raising our child...and I appreciate that. I also recognize that the eforts in parenting effect the energy level that is left over for intimacy.
I'd just like to see some improvement, instead of the constant downward spiral of the past 4 years.
An example of my frustration is the upcoming Christmas season. I do not know what gifts to buy...in the past many of the gifts I've gotten her have not seemed to be appreciated. If I buy her jewelry or clothing, she never wears it. I bought her a day at a Spa for mother's day in May, she still has not used it. Nothing I do seems to bring any happiness other than the instant that she receives it (and I'm starting to wonder if that excitement is real or not).
