Why don't you tell him, and your other son (if you need to), to feel free to call you, but to also keep a mental note of these situations, and when you're home, you and the boys will all sit down and discuss how to handle the situations that make them uncomfortable or confused?
There's bound to be tons more!
Sucks to be her!!!
There's another poster, Smiley's Person, on here that told his STBXW once (something like). Someday you're going to realize that it sucks to be you. She is. Trust me.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.