well, who knows what he will return to. you just be consistent. and write down boundaries for yourself, and what you will do about them. write them down so you can go to them and remember them and do them.

and about him balancing his emotions...well, I don't think he does a very good job! lol he's an emotional roller coaster!

I'm glad you guys had fun together...definitely better than fighting, that's for sure. and try to make the holidays as pleasant as possible, no matter what he does, so although he's being all nicey, don't expect it. don't expect anything, so you are not let down during christmas.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."