Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

Thanks for the support P17. I guess I'm having a hard time seeing how WAH has discarded me so easily. Makes me feel better to think he is testing me. I'll think of that when I'm tempted to contact him. It's been so hard to feel forgotten. I do hope he is feeling that himself.

OW's ex has texted me, called my cell and home and now sent me a FB message. All saying he's concerned for me and is supporting me. Too messy... my WAH broke up his marriage. He gave me an earful on what type of woman she is and what they do together. I don't need to know anymore. Too painful. I'm working on healing, not getting revenge.

WAH is wanting to spend more time with the kids. That's good but he hasn't cleared it with me. Seems like a game of chicken then. Who will contact first. I won't break now that I see it as a test.