New to the Divorce Situation

[wolverine1997]

I just think that moving out is never a good thing when trying to work on a marriage. I believe that it sets the ground work for divorce by teaching the couple to leave and avoid the problems. How can one learn to work on marital problems if they leave the marriage? Of course if abuse is involved that is a different story. I believe that learning to fix oneself and fix the marriage is a are related.

Also, if you move out and start working on yourself you will not see how what you are doing is affective or how your wife will react to it. The way you look at things may be totally different than how she may look at things.