Look it up if you want to become friends in the real world. send a PM with your name here and i will seek you out from my real face book account.
PM's don't work on here cutter! I've sent you a friend request though and added a personal message so you know it's from me.
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Its always trival stuff..... All part of their withdrawl. Remember what we feel is natural. And remember they are still human. So they are going to go through the same feelings as well. Just that they are clouded by the affair. But the love that was there still needs to go. And it hurts. Ours just bleeds out quicker.
Sometimes it's good to be reminded that they are hurting too as it really doesn't seem like it. But then to them, we look like we're not hurting either.
I wonder though if the love went a long time ago if the WAS detached themselves far back. However I have text messages with 'love you' 'xx' etc. on them from only a month or so before we split. I actually found a text the other day, from January (okay nearly a year ago but ...) that said 'love you more than you will ever know'. That stuff surely can't disappear that quickly. Can it?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
