Is this the end of my marriage?

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Rollercoaster...you have been through a lot in the last week to say the least...

Thanks for the support newmama. I know it will get easier and easier, but I also know it will get harder before the end.

This is normal when going dark. You are going to have these days where you want to contact or see the wife. Its natual. I am at week 12 now. And I get the feelings still. She still contacts me every once in awhile.

Is this trivial stuff or 'business'?

I think as long as the affair is going on the contact will be every few weeks to see if they can drag you back or make sure your not moving on.

Even after everything I've read in here I am still confused by this! Why, if they have 'moved on' and found 'true love' etc., do they still do this sh*t? Why do they care?!?!

From what I have read. When the affair breaks or they think you have moved on they will really try to break your resolve. The ones who have been there will need to speak up on that.

Any vet's confirm this? PDT / Sandi? Just want to make sure this is what I need to expect? Like above, wondering why they are afraid of us moving on? If they have moved on, why do they care? I probably know this stuff, but it's been a rough day.