Here's my first draft of the letter I'd like to give to W tomorrow. Please advise if I'm missing something or anything could be worded better:
"Per our discussion this morning (12/2/09), I am discontinuing the temporary weekly financial support that I've been providing you. The last check in the amount of $XXX will be given to you on January 1, 2010.
I will pay your December truck payment and insurance. Beginning January, you agree to take over the truck payments of $XXX a month, payable to me by the 26th of each month. We will arrange for a separate insurance policy for the truck only, which you will be responsible for paying, starting in January.
The cell phone bill for your cancelled account in the amount of $XXX will be paid by me.
Next week, I will request a Stop Payment on the monthly direct-draft charges for your XXXX credit card. You may wish to contact them to arrange to continue payment, or wait until we meet with a bankruptcy lawyer to advise the best action.
I will continue to meet the family's needs and obligations in regards to health/dental insurance, your counselor's visits, outstanding loans and utilities. I will also continue to provide food, shelter, clothing and other expenses for S7. However, I will not continue to finance a 2nd residence and expenses for you to live apart from our family."
Thoughts, opinions, suggestions?
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch