I told him that I hadn't even thought that far ahead. He said "me neither. I don't know what I'm doing yet."
I find this comment very strange. New Year is such a special time for new lovers - seeing in the new year together, kissing, hugging, making vows to be faithful (ahem) and 'here to a good year for us'. Why hasn't he made plans with OW? Are you sure everything is rosy in WAH / OW land?
Can I ask why you are going to do the NC with him? Things seems to be going well so I'm wondering why stop it all?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
