Originally Posted By: Lost Rabbit
RW(())) You just have to take each day at a time hun! My H is home and its hard to talk all the time because it would just get too heavy. Also both of you have to think about each talk before you can sort out what boundaries you want to put in place. Its not easy and infact I think its harder than the ILYBINILWY time, because then we had complete trust, now that is gone it is so much harder and more complicated. Only you know what you are prepared to put up with and where you want it to go and dont let anyone else tell you other wise.


Hello my dear Rabbit,
very true, my friend, very true. I do think it is much harder in a lot of ways. The painstaking process sometimes is overwhelming. But, yet... it is filled with potential hope. I am just trying to take it one day at a time, be VERY patient with the pace of it and remain "cautiously optimistic". I am thinking of you often as well...