RW(())) You just have to take each day at a time hun! My H is home and its hard to talk all the time because it would just get too heavy. Also both of you have to think about each talk before you can sort out what boundaries you want to put in place. Its not easy and infact I think its harder than the ILYBINILWY time, because then we had complete trust, now that is gone it is so much harder and more complicated. Only you know what you are prepared to put up with and where you want it to go and dont let anyone else tell you other wise.
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Thanks again.... Puppy, you have patience that is rare (hmmmmm.... is there a St. Puppy, or St. PTD... maybe we should petition the Catholic Church.... lol!) I don't know how you keep walking people through all these sitches, but I, for one am so grateful.
Oh, I'm pretty sure my Britney Spears pics alone would probably disqualify me, and my "beer pong" aptitude would surely set off some alarm bells.
Hi Cutter my friend, Yes I do know that. Hehehe... I love that ... makes me feel like I'm in high school again. Wow... the first? whodda thunk it even a few weeks ago... certainly not me. And let's not forget how tentative and fragile it all is... I can't forget that.
RW(())) You just have to take each day at a time hun! My H is home and its hard to talk all the time because it would just get too heavy. Also both of you have to think about each talk before you can sort out what boundaries you want to put in place. Its not easy and infact I think its harder than the ILYBINILWY time, because then we had complete trust, now that is gone it is so much harder and more complicated. Only you know what you are prepared to put up with and where you want it to go and dont let anyone else tell you other wise.
Hello my dear Rabbit, very true, my friend, very true. I do think it is much harder in a lot of ways. The painstaking process sometimes is overwhelming. But, yet... it is filled with potential hope. I am just trying to take it one day at a time, be VERY patient with the pace of it and remain "cautiously optimistic". I am thinking of you often as well...
Thanks again.... Puppy, you have patience that is rare (hmmmmm.... is there a St. Puppy, or St. PTD... maybe we should petition the Catholic Church.... lol!) I don't know how you keep walking people through all these sitches, but I, for one am so grateful.
Oh, I'm pretty sure my Britney Spears pics alone would probably disqualify me, and my "beer pong" aptitude would surely set off some alarm bells.
But thanks.
Puppy
OK the beer pong... yeah, somehow that seems to "fit" you and cracks me up! But, Britney Spears? Oh now come on, you can NOT leave that one hanging and not explain.... DO TELL!
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