WAW Using God

[pigskin]

I re-read the posts from September. The biggest thing was she leaves if the EA goes on, and that's where we are, although she says she's breaking it off, and needs to get away by herself.

More drama tonight: I asked her why she talked with the OM over the phone after she and I had spoken about the "breaking it off" lunch today (I found out they spoke after she had left the house following our conversation). She fumbled around with her words, incredulous that I somehow knew, said "I needed someone to talk to", then went in to rambling about "you said I can't see him again but I need to get my stuff from him and figure out how to do that. We didn't agree that there would be zero contact from today on. I have to get my stuff somehow (he's got some kitchen supplies from when he moved to his own place).

I asked, "how did you get from "I needed someone to talk to" to then coming up with the explanation that it was a logistics call". She got perturbed. I told her to please not treat me as if I am somehow out of line here. Look at what Tiger Woods' wife did - I think I've been VERY civil throughout this 8 month ordeal. I also mentioned how she didn't seem very upset after breaking it off this afternoon - she was actually kind of cheerful - and that she was a wreck back in May when they both decided to "break it off" which lasted about 3 days. She told me she went to her apartment and cried her eyes out, and just because she didn't seem upset to me didn't mean that she wasn't.

I told her that turning right around and talking with the OM right after we had been back and forth over this stuff just makes it impossible to trust her on anything. Then she shot at me "What do you want me to do?!?". I told her calmly, "Never look at him, speak to him, phone him, or write to him ever again". She said "Fine!" I'll send him an email and copy you.

So she did. Then went upstairs upset, came back down and left in the car. Who knows where she's gone.

To be continued. I guess...