"She also said an A would risk too much in terms of growing her business"? You actually bought that?
How many men and women have thrown away careers and hard-earned reputations for the sake of an affair? How many people have destroyed their families because they had a "right" to be happy?
Yeah, you might want to ask one Mr. Tiger Woods about that one. Or the Governor of South Carolina. Or Jimmy Swaggart. Or . . .